4.67 Degrees of Separation

    
"According to a study of 5.2 billion such relationships by social media monitoring firm Sysomos, the average distance on Twitter is 4.67. On average, about 50% of people on Twitter are only four steps away from each other, while nearly everyone is five steps away."

     Credits: Wikipedia.org and Sysomos

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     I'm fascinated with this idea that we are only a few degrees/people away from almost anyone on the planet. There are over 6 billion people on this planet and you are far more connected to them than you think.
 
     I think Facebook has truly brought this notion home, especially when you click on a random person's profile and you find out that you have 7 mutual friends. Um. What. Eye-opening.


     We're not just 6 Degrees from Kevin Bacon, but from almost everyone.




Wisdom's Knocking:

You're sphere of influence is far more reaching than you think.




Trip Out!


      I had this random thought today, which should probably be a Facebook status update rather than a blog post. But, oh well.

     I literally was sitting, minding my own business writing notes, and I had the thought, "I had to be taught to read and write." I mean, I woudn't know how to write my ABC's unless someone taught me. Wow. My brain is amazing. It didn't know something. And now it does. And I use that skill of writing and reading all the time. Trip out!

     I guess you had to be there...in my mind. To realize how big this news was to me.

Wisdom's Knocking:

"All we know, is not all there is."


The Ways of Ice

     In Photo: Ice Skater, Debi Thomas

     Once again, I've somehow been sucked into watching the U.S. Championships, Ladies Free Skate on NBC. Not by any peer pressure, but by the pure seduction of looking at people almost floating on air.

     This has been happening to me, since I was about 8 years old. The music. The commentary. Those moments of suspense, a.k.a. the jumps. Yes, mostly the exhilaration, nervousness, and anticipation of watching a skater do a jump like a Triple Salchow.

     This sport is so beautiful, and yet sometimes painful to watch. A mix of grace and brute. The ice skater is floating ever so gently, until his or her butt hits that hard ice, because of a jump that was miscalculated.

     And the moment that I always dread while watching figure skating on TV, happened tonight... repeatedly.

     I can't remember the name of the girl, I just watched, but I just learned a new fact today, via our ice skating commentator: If you're 5'7", you're considered tall as a female ice skater and will have a much more difficult time landing jumps.

     Which might explain why I watched this particular (5'7") young lady fall at least 3 times in her program. Agh! It broke my heart. But in true ice skating fashion, she quickly got back up and finished her program with a smile on her face. You could feel the anguish, but she wasn't going to quit. That wasn't an option.

     More than anything, not everyone is out to see you fail. I'm reminded of that when I watch ice skating. There's a collective sigh of sympathy in the crowd when an ice skater falls. Which tells me, the crowd was anticipating and hoping for the success of the skater throughout their entire performance.

     And although the peanut gallery may laugh at you when you fall, they will not have the last word, when you get back up again.


Wisdom's Knocking:

Though you fall, get back up again.


"This Is School, Fool!"

Photo Credit: Lindsay Coleman
     

       Almost everyday, my mom has crazy stories to tell about the high school that she works at. She may be in "Lock Down" one day, or dealing with loud-mouthed mamas coming to the school, in their house shoes and doo- rags, trying to compete with the fashions of their daughters (i.e. Daisy Duke cut-offs). Or the school psychiatrist may be threatening to kill herself, because of her broken down love life.

     Other days, my mom has to politely explain to a young man, why he can't simply come to school to visit and hang out with his cousin. "This is school, fool. And I don't know what you're packing."

     You might laugh. But the rage of this generation is often times disarming. And especially at a school where students consistently harm one another, steal, and threaten each other's lives, there's little room for vision and hope amidst these particular students. Their battle is intense and ongoing.

     In the midst of the storm, my mom is an anchor of peace. Her strength and hope has always been and is God. Ask any of the women and men that work beside her, that trust in her counsel, they'll speak with love and fondness. Ask the young students that she confronts in love, they become her children for life.

     But today, was a particularly rough day for my mother.

     She told me of how a 16 year old girl was assaulted and almost raped in the girl's bathroom by a young man that the young girl knew. Rather, this young girl had previously brushed aside the advances of this particular boy. He had tried to flirt, but she made it known that she wasn't interested. While his pride was hurt, his anger raged also. This young boy camped out in the girl's bathroom, until his timely opportunity arrived.

     The young girl fought him off, but the emotional trauma many times far exceeds the physical harm.

     My mom felt the weight of such an injustice. A place of safety, not just a physical place, had been defiled.

     As my mom told me this story, I felt her heart ache. But at the same time, I felt her anchor of Peace. It was other worldly and so beautiful to see in action.

     The story will not finish with injustice and defilement. It's hard to see that now. But this isn't the first time my mother has seen battle. More importantly, she knows and has seen the faithfulness of God's kindness in her own life and countless others.

     A place of safety and refuge is always ours, in the hands of God.

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6 For God, who said, β€œLet light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of God’s glory displayed in the face of Christ.  
7 But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. 8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 


2 Corinthians 4:6-10



Wisdom's Knocking:

While the battle may be rocky, the victory will be stable.

Techie Toe to Toe

   
     Why is it, that when you have internet problems with your service provider, upon calling them for assistance and help, they promptly mention you should visit their online customer service page.

     Um, if I could log on to your customer service page, why would I be calling you?

    Genius.

Wisdom's Knocking:

Everyone doesn't see things the same way you do.